Keeping the Farm in Family Hands

Mary Treat continues a family tradition of farming in Milford.

“Milford’s a funny place,” said Mary Treat of , a cornucopia of flowers and produce that has operated within the family since 1948.  “They [the residents] go away and they come back. I’ve been here since the early 1960’s.  I’ve watched a lot of generations go through the door.”

Treat was nine year olds when, she said, her father gave her a hat one summer and told her to pick strawberries at the Robert Treat Farm.  

“Once I started picking strawberries, I came back every summer,” said a woman who went on to major in fruit and vegetable production at the University of Connecticut. 

Then, she married the boss’s son, Robert Mortimer Treat.  The lineage of her husband, who died in 1986 when Mary was 30 years old, stretched back to the very first Robert Treat in Milford, who was born in England in the early 1620’s and became one of the city’s earliest settlers. 

From 1683 to 1698, according to records at the Connecticut State Library, he served as governor of the Colony of Connecticut.  Earlier, he had served as a deputy at the New Haven Colony General Court—it was from New Haven Colony that Milford’s founding fathers came—and as the chief military officer of Milford and then as deputy governor. 

Robert Treat acquired extensive properties before he died in Milford in 1710.     

The 25 tillable acres of soil under Treat's supervision provide produce that is now in the early stages of growth.  A farm market, open-air pavillion and greenhouses accompany it. 

Keeping the farm in the family is no easy task.

“I work almost every day,” said Treat who conceded she had been out the door of her Milford home by 5:30 a.m. on a day earlier this week.  In summer, she said she heads off to the farm by 4:30 a.m. or as soon as day breaks. “When I can sit home and have a coffee, that’s a day off.”

“I drink with my left hand and water with my right hand,” she said, when asked how she had had her early morning cup of coffee on a day when she was watering some of the farm's abundance of plants. 

Her husband followed his father in running the Robert Treat Farm, but what keeps this family business going are the customers who continue to return.

“The only reason the farm is here is because we have great customers,” she said.

Treat is especially pleased with the community-supported agriculture or CSA shares that the farm now offers.  The purchase of a share gives a customer fresh, local produce and, in the case of the Robert Treat Farm, also cut flowers, while allowing the farm to predict how many fruits and vegetables it needs to produce.

“I can remember days when we grew a lot of things,” Treat recalled.  Then, she said, the area would have one week of rainy weather and customers would find it easier to go to the grocery store than come out to the farm.  “We’d chop up a whole field of lettuce,” she said.

Within her awareness as well are the farms lost to the construction of highways or the times when farmers, having stopped farming their land commercially and, so, absent the tax benefits of a state policy available to those who do, had to sell their property to developers.

And while Treat conceded that she is “crazy” to work as hard as she does, the ascribed her efforts on the farm to “a love of what you do” and a “passion for what you do.”

“I like the land,” said the mother of three children she raised with the help of her parents while she continued to operate the farm.  And if none of her children have chosen to become part of the family farming tradition—well, now there are grandchildren.   

“I don’t want to sell it,” Treat said of the family farm.

Pam Landry April 20, 2012 at 10:20 AM
LOVE Treat Farm...it is a Milford treasure.
Barbara April 20, 2012 at 11:55 AM
Treat Farm is a wonderful place-full of fresh foods & beautiful plants! We should support our local farms & nurseries!!
Cindy Howard April 20, 2012 at 01:30 PM
Love having the wonderful local produce and flowers as well as the Farmers Market they have there.
Monica Foran April 20, 2012 at 02:34 PM
I love Treats Farm - Mary and her staff are helpful and knowledgeable about all they sell. Best corn in the area and the strawberries are just perfect. Are the plants more expensive than those at Home Depot? Yes - and they should be - they don't die, you get expert advice when you buy one, and help if the plant fails to thrive. Mary runs a very "hands on" business, and you know she values her customers. Glad to see Mary featured on the Milford Patch.
Alison Cook Beatty April 20, 2012 at 09:19 PM
Mary was my first boss. She taught me so much about life, and was one of my first role models growing up. Treat farm was my first job. I worked there for 10 years. I started out picking flowers for 25 cents a bunch. I love Mary, her family, and the farm. I was so lucky to have had that experience. Working on a farm taught me well...
Monica April 21, 2012 at 12:59 AM
When you want quality you go to Treats! Mary knows her business! We hope the farm continues for decades.
Linda Spray April 21, 2012 at 07:10 PM
I was born and raised in Milford and remember the treat farm way back when I was a child growing uo matter a fact my brother even worked in the fields and I remember clearly coming home with straw in the cuffs of his jeans! So when I grew older and was living in Milford I frequently parused the garden green houses and many a plant is now still thriving in my gardens even though I do not live here in Milford at this time hopefully I can return as I call it Home one day!! You do a fantastic job and my family had a garden and chickens so i know the hard work involved but I still love gardening!!!!
Joe Della Monica April 21, 2012 at 10:38 PM
Still remember the "Bear" growing up and visiting my friends who worked the fields through high school. That was 30 years ago and I still enjoy trips to the farm and tell my children the stories of the glory days.
arkay April 21, 2012 at 11:12 PM
It's awesome, hope they never leave/sell.
arkay April 21, 2012 at 11:12 PM
Yes, all the plants I've gotten there have done really well. Lowes, mixed results - mostly good, but not quite as good.


More »
Got a question? Something on your mind? Talk to your community, directly.
Note Article
Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors.What's on your mind?What's on your mind?Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell somethingPost something
See more »